Football is a game full of emotions pro or against a team that one is supporting at any moment. All the parties involved should understand that it is only a game that its rules have to be respected by the custodians’ match officials & the participants as well as the spectators.
Rule No. 1: Keep POSITIVE support, encouragement, cheer leading and general screaming and hollering to a MAXIMUM on the touchlines.
When the players are working hard, they need and deserve everyone’s best POSITIVE encouragement and support. They need to know you’re there and that their effort is appreciated. Most teams have a tough enough time developing a sense of teamwork and achievement at the same time the players are gaining experience and skill. They DO NOT need to hear YOUR anxiety piled on top of their own when the game is going poorly. If you really want to make things worse, crank your voice up a few notches and shout “Get it outta there!”
Rule No. 2: DO NOT CRITICIZE referees or players of either team for any reason.
If the referees really ARE doing poorly, they may get angry or offended by critical spectators and that may make things tougher for the team. If they are good at what they do, they will ignore you, or perhaps ask you to leave the field. Either situation is at best distracting and at worst reflects poorly on the team’s overall sportsmanship.
Publicly criticizing players on your team can really hurt team morale. They will already have an EXCELLENT idea what their weaknesses are from their coaches and teammates. They will not need reminders from their families, friends and other spectators.
The players for the other team are also trying hard and in truth are probably no meaner or nastier than players from your team. Criticism is simply poor sportsmanship and leads to unnecessary bad feelings on and off the field. The unfortunate spectacle of supposed adult shouting insults at players on a soccer field is merely disgusting. Soccer is a game, not a war.
Rule No. 3: Don’t coach players from the touchlines or for that matter while THEY are on the touchlines.
In most leagues, coaching from the sidelines is frowned on, and rightly so. Soccer is different from most sports, because it is a game of the players. Coaches are supposed to intrude as little as
If you feel a player is not doing what should be done, tell the coaches, not the player. As occasionally discovered, a player may be doing EXACTLY what the coaches have instructed. Either way, an adult can help a player’s athletic development much better working together with the coaches, not independently.
Rule No. 4: Give the players, coaches and referees room to work.
Many organizations have rules which require that spectators on the touchlines to stay in an area designated for them. The same applies to the Technical bench which is only allowed one person at a time to offer instructions to their team within the confines of their technical area.
Rule No. 5: Remember, IT’S ONLY A GAME.
Don’t forget, YOUR attitude on the touchlines can affect the mood and success of the team. If the coaches think that your touchlines activity is hurting team performance in any way, they should promptly advise you, hopefully without ruffling any of your feathers. Be tolerant. Emotions run high during games, and feelings are easily hurt.
Nevertheless, any spectator, whether friend or player, who persists in inappropriate touchlines behavior after being warned by the coaches should be asked to leave the vicinity of the field. Coaches should not argue with spectators at the game. If YOU want to talk about the game, call the coaches later at home or get them aside after the game.